The Bus

Love is like waiting for a bus. When the bus comes, you look at it and you say to yourself "Eeee... so full, cannot sit down. I'll wait for the next one."

So you let the bus go and waited for the second bus. Then the second bus came. You looked at it and said, "Eeee! This bus is so old... so shubby!"

So you let the bus go and again, decided to wait for the next bus. After a while another bus came, it's not crowded, not old, but you said "Eeee... not air-conditioned. Better wait for the next one."

So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus. Then the sky started to get dark as it was getting late. You panicked and jumped immediately inside the next bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you boarded the wrong bus!

And you wasted your time and money just to get into the wrong one!

Even if an air-conditioned bus comes, you can't ensure that the aircon bus won't break down or whether or not the air conditioner will be too cold for you.

Wanting to get what you want is not wrong. But it wouldn't hurt to give other people a chance. If you find the the "Bus" doesn't suit you just press the red button and get off the bus! Hey, who said life is fair???

The best thing to do is be observant and open-minded. If it doesn't suit you, get off.

I'm sure you've had this experience before. You saw a bus coming (the one you want of course). You flagged it but the driver acted as if he didn't see you and zoomed pass you! It just wasn't meant for you!

The bottom line is, being loved is like waiting for a bus you want. Getting on the bus and appreciating the bus by giving it a chance depends totally on you. If you haven't made any choice, WALK!

Walking is like being single. The good side of it is you can still choose any bus you want.....the rest who couldn't afford another ride would just have to be content with the bus they rode on, ugly or not.

Also, sometimes it is better to choose a bus you are already familiar with rather than to gamble with a bus that is unfamiliar to you. But then again, life wouldn't be complete without the risks involved.

But there is one bus that I failed to tell you about - - the Bus you do not have to wait for, the Bus that will stop on its own and ask you if you wish to come inside, then take you for a joy ride for the rest of your life.

Hope you get the ride on that bus!

Dos Palmas Arreceffi Island Resort, Palawan

Dos Palmas Areceffi
Originally uploaded by Icechase.

Sunset view at Bay cottages

Why is True Love so difficult to Find?

The old woman sat on the antique rattan rocking chair. Her eyeglasses were perched precariously on her nose as she concentrated on her sewing chores.

A gentle breeze swept the wisp of whitish hair on her temples. Beside her sat her teenage grand daughter. She was like a fresh flower recently bloomed. Without a warning, she suddenly blurted out, "Grandmother, why is true love so difficult to find?"

The old woman with a kind face stopped sewing and touched her grand daughter's head affectionately. After a moment, the young girl cuddled closer resting her head on the old woman's lap.

"Listen and I will tell you why," began the grand mother.

"Many centuries ago, when the world was young, true love existed everywhere. It was available for the asking. Because of this, men and women took true love for granted. So God decided to keep true love...."

She stopped and smiled as she gently stroke the young girl's soft tresses.

"God asked a pair of angels to keep true love. First, they buried true love in the ground. But man and woman easily dug it out. Next, the angels took true love to the highest mountain. But again, man and woman easily climbed to the top. Then the angels submerged true love in the deepest sea. Man and woman swam to the bottom of the body of water and with ease retrieved true love."

"So, true love is easy to find," commented the young girl.

"For man and woman will dig, climb and swim."

"Yes, but finally the angels kept true love in the hearts of man and woman. Since then, people have had difficulty searching for true love. For they look everywhere except in the one place that should keep it."

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Suburbia3
Originally uploaded by Icechase.

Picture was taken after their live performance at Suburbia, Malate. Grabe, ang sweet talaga ni Dunx!!!! ang bango pa... Hay!

Do we miss Him?

A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his Father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.

As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his Father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation, his father called him into his private study room.

His Father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box. Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible.

Angrily, he raised his voice at his Father and said, "With all your money, you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the Holy book.

He never contacted his father again for long long time.

Many years had passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his Father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.

Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his Father had passed away, and willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things. When he arrived at his Father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his Father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago.

With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped behind the Bible. It has a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words ..... PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessing because they are not packaged as we expected?

A Lesson from Frogs

I am always glad to be used in this way and I call it a privilege to be able to send you this story that encourage and inspire us. It is amazing to me how a simple word of encouragement to someone can change their whole day or even a week. That shows me how important it is to be kind and try my best to be sensitive to others around me who are in need. I encourage you to be sensitive to others and know that your words have power to both bless someone and crush someone.

This is a story that I have read 5 or 6 times these past few months. As you will read, you can see what a word of encouragement or discouragement can do.


A group of frogs were traveling through the woods, and two of them fell into a deep pit. All the other frogs gathered around the pit. When they saw how deep the pit was, they told the unfortunate frogs they would never get out.

The two frogs ignored the comments and tried to jump up out of the pit. The other frogs kept telling them to stop, they were as good as dead. Finally, one of the frogs took heed to what the frogs were saying and simply gave up. He fell down and died.

The other frog continued to jump as hard as he could. Once again, the crowd of frogs yelled at him to stop the pain and suffering and just die.

He started to jump even harder and finally made it out. But when he got out, the other frogs asked him, "Why did you continue jumping? Didn't you hear us telling you to quit." The frog explained to them that he was deaf.

He thought they were encouraging him the entire time.


This story really touched my heart for many reasons. I encourage you to be strong and not give up the dreams the Lord has given you to accomplish. Do not let the devil get you down or make you think of quitting your plans just because everything doesn't start off right. Pray and seek the Lord for direction and guidance and He is faithful to hear and answer your prayers.

Everything Happens for a Reason...

Sometimes people come into your life and you know
right away that they were meant to be there ..... to serve.
Some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out
who you are or Who you want to become. You never know
who these people may be but when you look eyes with them,
you know that every moment that you are with them, they will
affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things
happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and
unfair. But in reflection you realized that without overcoming
those obstacles you would have never realized your potential,
strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason!
Nothing happens by chance or by means of good luck.
Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness
And sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly
paved, straight, flat road to nowhere, safe and comfortable
But dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The success
and downfalls that you experience can create who you are,
and the bad experiences can be learned from .....
In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important
ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart,
Forgive them because they have helped you learn about
Trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open
your Heart. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally
Not only because they love you, but also because they are
Teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

Make everyday count!

Appreciate every moment and take from it everything
that you possibly can, for you may never be able to
experience it again. Talk to people who you have never
talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in
love, even if it doesn't seem right because you are too
young or too far, just follow your heart. Surround yourself
with those who make you smile, laugh and make you happy.

Break free and set your sights high.
Hold your head up because you have every right to
tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself,
for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.
Create your won life then Let go and Live it!

My First Composition: Bawat Sandali

Music and Lyrics: Icechase
Composition date: October 8, 2003

Let me give you a short story about this song.

It wasn't my story actually. I got inspired by a friend who have gone thru a lot of ups and downs in a relationship. The song speaks of her feeling for that special someone, even if they were not together, she feels that no one can ever take the place of that guy....


Ang awit kong ito'y sanay dinggin
Muli ako sayo'y umaamin
Magmula ng tayo ay nagkalayo
Di na napakali ang damdamin ko

Kahit pa anong gawin, sa isip at damdamin
Nagbabalik pa rin alaala natin

Bawat sandali ikaw ang nais
Dinggin mo sana, bulong ng damdamin
Bawat sandali ikaw ang laging
Makasama, sana....

Kahit pa pilitin na limutin ka
O bakit ba ito'y di ko magawa
Kahit pa nasasaktan na nga
Ang puso ko'y sayo nakalaan sinta

At kahit mayron pang iba, sa buhay koy darating pa
Walang ibang hiling, sana'y ikaw pa rin giliw

Bawat sandali ikaw ng nais
Dinggin mo sana, bulong ng damdamin
Bawat sandali ikaw ang laging
Makasama, sana...

Kung maibabalik ko lang sana
Ang tamis ng ating pagsasama
Ang saya sa twing kasama ka
Bawat alaalang nagdaan
Muli ang hiling....

Bawat sandali ikaw ang nais
Dinggin mo sana, bulong ng damdamin
Bawat sandali ikaw ang laging
Makasama, sana...

Sa bawat sandali....
Ang makasama
Sana

The Scars

This is a good story and illustration of how we do struggle in life with daily problems and situations but the good news is that the Lord is with us, fighting our wars and keeping us safe with His everlasting Love, Grace, Wisdom and Mercy. I hope this story blesses your life and know that God will never leave you not forsake you.

Some years ago on a hot summer day in Florida, a little boy decided to go for a swim in the old swimming hole behind his house. In a hurry to dive into the cool water, he ran out the back door, leaving behind shoes, socks, and shirt as he went. He flew into the water, not realizing that as he swam toward the middle of the lake, an alligator was swimming toward the shore. His mother -- in the house was looking out the window, saw the two as they got closer and closer together.

In utter fear, she ran toward the water, yelling to her son as loud as she could. Hearing her voice, the little boy became alarmed and made a U-turn to swim to his mother. It was too late. Just as he reached her, the alligator reached him. From the dock, the mother grabbed her little boy by the arms just as the alligator snatched his legs. That began an incredible tug-of-war between the two. The alligator was much stronger than the mother, but the mother was much too passionate to let go.

A farmer happened to drive by, heard her screams, raced from his truck, took aim and shot the alligator. Remarkably, after two weeks and weeks in the hospital, the little boy survived. His legs were extremely scarred by the vicious attack of the animal. And, on his arms, were deep scratches where his mother's fingernails dug into his flesh in her effort to hang on to the son she loved.

The newspaper reporter who interviewed the boy after the trauma, asked if he could show him his scars. The boy lifted his pant legs. And then, with obvious pride, he said to the reporter, "But look at my arms. I have great scars on my arms, too. I have them because my mom wouldn't let go."

You and I can identify with that little boy. We have scars too. No, not from an alligator, or anything quite so dramatic. But the scars of a painful past. Some of those scars are unsightly and have caused us deep regret. But, some wounds, my friend, are because God has refused to let go. In the midst of your struggle, He's been there holding on to you. The story teaches us that God loves us. If you have Him in your life, you have become a child of God. He wants to protect you and provide for you in every situations. The swimming hole of life is filled with peril - and we forget that the enemy is waiting to attack. That's when the tug-o-war begins, and if you have the scars of His love on you arms, be very very grateful. He did not - and will not let you go.

This story is also dedicated in loving memory of my father, Ricardo L. Frondozo.

I miss you Papa! We love you so much.... Thanks for all the kindness and for all the love that you've shown us. You will always be in my heart.....

The Wonders of Forgiving

I found a new book and I'm excited to share it with you. It's Forgiveness Therapy by David Schell.

Here are some of my favorites:

1. Forgiveness means bending without breaking, being strong enough to withstand the heavy weight of injury but resilient enough to recover. Be forgiving.

2. Forgive yourself; for what you regret doing and for what you wish you had done, for not being fully yourself and for being only yourself.

3. Self-forgiveness cleanses the soul, washing away shame and guilt. Out of self-forgiveness comes the power to extend forgiveness to others.

4. You have the right to feel sad, betrayed, angry, resentful when you've been injured. Understand, accept and express your feelings. Pushing them below the surface only means they will erupt in another place, at another time.

5. Justice may right the wrongs, but forgiveness heals the hurt. Seek forgiveness beyond justice.

6. Sometimes people hurt you because, like you, they are learning and growing. Forgive their incompleteness, their humanness.

7. To refuse to forgive is to continue to hurt yourself. Victimized once, your lack of forgiveness keeps you stuck as a victim, holding on to a victim's identity. Instead, claim the identity of one who forgives.

8. No loving relationship is free of hurts. Bind up the wounds of love with forgiveness.

9. When you are having a difficult time forgiving, recall a moment when you wanted to be forgiven. Offer the other person what you wanted to receive.

10. Forgiveness takes practice. Start with small hurts and work your way up to the big ones.

11. Forgiveness may seem futile when you see no immediate results. But healing and growth are like fine aged cheese -- not instant mashed potatoes. Give forgiveness time.

12. You cannot change someone for the better by holding a grudge. Grudges only change you -- for the worse.

13. When someone won't forgive you, refusing to forgive in return is no answer. That's like wrapping yourself in the other's chains. Keep yourself free; forgive.

14. To help you forgive, picture the other person surrounded by the light of God. See yourself stepping into that same light, and feel God's presence with you both.

15. Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else; it is something you do for yourself. Give yourself the gift of forgiveness.


Sometimes, when we have been wronged, bruised, angered or betrayed, it is difficult to forgive. It is easier said than done. But too much anger and resentment makes it hard for us to move on. All that pain we refuse to let go will bury us in a place we shouldn't get stuck in. After the hurt and anger should come healing, and healing can only take place if we allow ourselves to forgive.

We should pray that God gives us the grace to forgive. Ask Him to give us a heart big enough to be humble. Once we choose to forgive, then and only then can we heal, then and only then can we free ourselves of the burden of our wounds.

Free yourself! Forgive. Allow God's love to thaw your heart!

The Cross

Just like to share this story in lieu of the Lenten season.

These are great days we are living in, but there are moments where we wish life was a little easier. Life is not always easy but be encouraged and take comfort in the fact that God is with us and He will see us through every problem or situation that has us worried. We sometimes want the answer to come the second we finish praying, but God sees the big picture and will use every problem to make us stronger and in turn more faithful to know that He is an on time God. He knows what we need even before we ask Him so be encouraged and know that He will meet your every need according to His riches and glory.

This is a great short story that encouraged me to always be content in life because there is always someone carrying a heavier burden than I am. Read this message and think of the people that are not as fortunate as you are.

The young man was at the end of his rope. Seeing no way out, he dropped to his knees in prayer. "Lord, I can't go on," he said. "I have too heavy cross to bear."

The Lord replied, "My son, if you can't bear its weight, just place your cross inside this room. Then, open the other door and pick out any cross you wish."

The man was filled with relief, "Thank you, Lord." he sighed, and he did as he was told.

Upon entering the other door, he saw many crosses; some so large the tops were not visible. Then, he spotted a tiny cross leaning against a far wall. "I'd like that one, Lord," he whispered.

The Lord replied, "My son, that is the cross you just brought in."

Author unknown

When life's problems seem overwhelming, it helps to look around and see what other people are coping with. You may consider yourself far more fortunate than you imagined.

When I was a child, my mother taught me to never look at the people that are living better than I am, but to look at those who are less fortunate than me. If I'm always looking at the person who has a better home, job or lifestyle, then I will never be satisfied with where I am in life. But if I think about the person who has no home and does not know where their next meal is coming from, then I will be thankful for all that I have. Be encouraged and know that you are blessed.

People I admired the most

I'm always fascinated with people who are not afraid to face the everyday challenge in life. Aside from my parents who will always be on top of my list, these people always gives me hope and inpires me in some profound way. A big thank you goes out to JAY DURIAS of South Border. Why??? Not only because he's a good friend of mine but simply because his music influenced me to write songs, I mean good songs. I always told myself that someday, somehow... I'm gonna be like him. All my compositions will be appreciated and will be known all around the world. I will become an icon in the music industry.